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- I sent my 9-year-old son to an etiquette camp. It might sound old-fashioned, but it taught him confidence and kindness. (businessinsider.com)
Etiquette Camp? Yes, My Kid Went, and He’ll Go Back
My 9-year-old, Wells, is a good kid. Generally well-behaved, no real disciplinary issues.
But like many parents navigating today’s tech-driven, often less-than-courteous world, I sometimes wonder about the finer points of etiquette. So, when I saw a Facebook ad for a local etiquette camp, I was intrigued.
Three days for $225, comparable to his other summer camp choices, so I signed him up.
My goal wasn’t to transform him into a mini-aristocrat. I simply wanted to introduce him to the nuances of social grace.
The camp was held at a lovely home, and on arrival, I saw a group of nervous kids. But the moment the instructor appeared, everything changed.
She greeted each child individually with a handshake and a warm “Would you like to come in?” I was impressed.
After the first day, Wells was bursting with stories about silverware placement and napkin etiquette. It sounded like a kid-friendly version of a formal dinner party.
Beyond table manners, they discussed the importance of curiosity and asking questions rather than dominating conversations. The key takeaway?
Giving someone your attention is the greatest gift. In a world of constant digital distractions, this resonated deeply.
The camp’s no-screens policy allowed the kids to experience the simple pleasure of uninterrupted conversation.
The camp also emphasized the difference between entitlement and gratitude, a valuable lesson for all children. Did three days transform Wells into a perfectly polished gentleman?
Not quite. But I’ve noticed positive changes.
He’s more helpful, asks about my day, and we frequently receive compliments on his manners. He seems to appreciate being recognized for his courtesy.
Of course, he’s still a kid. There are slip-ups.
But he now has a foundation of good manners to build upon. The experience was so positive that he’ll definitely be returning this summer, and who knows, maybe even cotillion in the future.
Etiquette classes might seem a bit outdated, but good manners are always in style.