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- When my toddler has emotional outbursts, I ignore her. The tantrums tend to pass when I’m not paying attention anymore. (newsbreak.com)
Parenting Emotions in the Modern Era
Modern parenting focuses on acknowledging children’s emotions, but it’s crucial to teach them to manage those emotions effectively.
Ignoring Tantrums
Contrary to popular belief, ignoring tantrums can help toddlers learn that their emotions don’t rule the situation. By providing a safe space and labeling their feelings, parents can allow children to express themselves without giving their emotions excessive attention.
Understanding Emotions
Emotions are fleeting experiences that can be exaggerated in children. By understanding that these feelings will pass, parents can avoid dwelling on them and instead focus on teaching children how to move beyond them.
Letting Emotions Pass
Offering brief comfort and acknowledging children’s emotions is important, but it’s essential to allow them to process those emotions independently. By not giving in to tantrums, parents demonstrate that emotions are not the ultimate decision-makers in life.
The Importance of Balance
While it’s important to validate children’s feelings, over-validating can lead to excessive emotional reactions. Teaching children to manage their emotions while recognizing that life continues despite those emotions is key to their future well-being.